Guy Bestfriend

I was reading my old diary from when I was 16, 17. So I got this idea to write about what  I believe in friendship between a girl and a guy.

A lot of people around me told me that it is impossible to be close friends with the opposite sex. I refuse to believe it. I think it depends on the individual itself. Yes, things might get complicated because we are humans after all aren't we? We got confused with the feelings we have. Sometimes I feel weird even towards my girl friends. How come I love them this much? Then I stopped and think if I were to feel this way towards a friend who is a guy I would absolutely think that I might be in love with them when actually the feeling is kind of the same towards my friend that is a girl. But because his from opposite sex, we kind of complicate things for ourselves I must say.

I do think that a guy and a girl can be friends. Whether its best friends, normal friends, exes. We just need time to make sure about what we feel and want each other so bad as friends. I have a guy friend who I really cherish. Things got complicated. Though it hurts me, but I still want to stay as friends after everything. Because I want to have that thing where I'm still friends with him in another 5, 10 years and when we talk about how far we are as friends, we would laugh at all the bitter part of it and smile that we can still be friends after all the years. It doesn't have to be the end to a friendship. Friendship is much more divine, i must say.

And now I have three guys as close friends. Sometimes I do think or feel like I'm in love with them, sometimes there is an awkward moment where we  feel like there might have been something between us. But... BUT! only make a move if you really are sure you have feelings for each other and if you're not then take a step back. That's what I do at least. I take a step back, let everything simmer down to normal and everything is okay.

We do need opposite sex as a friend. Not everything can be talked about with girls. And somehow I do think we all have a little boy in us where we just want to have fun like boys do. Video games, cars, motor bikes or sports. And where to get all those without tugging and pushing your girl friends to have the same hobby? It's to have a few guy friends. Maybe we can have them to talk about what guys think or feel in a relationship when we have problems with our significant other. Whatever it is< I believe that if the friendship is important and you love that person as a friend whatever happen in between of the friendship that can make the friendship be "complicated" should be forgotten because what's important is to have each other in each other's lives.